Put a finger down if…

  • You do breathing exercises on the way to your parent’s house, where you’ll stay in your childhood bedroom.

  • You watch your mom spiral into a panic every year trying to make the house perfect for extended family.

  • You spend Christmas / Hanukkah / Diwali / Kwanzaa scrolling through Instagram under the table, telling yourself that all your friends are having a better time than you based on their picturesque photos.

  • You post your picturesque photos while crying in the bathroom after a fight at the dinner table.

  • You force yourself to put on a happy face during festivities, even when you’re navigating difficult emotions and challenges that don’t quite seem to fit in with the tinsel and cheer.

  • You’re wondering if you could get away with taking a solo vacation for the holidays, but know your family would freak out.

  • You really want to spend time with your family, but don’t know how to do that without abandoning yourself and all of your needs.

  • You struggle to fit in all of your favorite activities and traditions.

  • You’re longing to celebrate the holidays your way and feel pressured to do things that your family and friends want.

  • You love the holidays … and you kind of hate the holidays.

Alexa helps you reframe the holiday season and reconnect

with the only expectations that really matter, your own.

Alexa, as the wonderful and relatable writer that she is, creates an instantly safe space for you to process your feelings about holidays. She provides anecdotes from her own life experience that are validating and reassuring. Not to mention she even adds humor with her hallmark movie section!

The prompts open up discussion in a thoughtful way and could even be an activity to do with friends to get closer, like a ‘We’re Not Really Strangers - Holiday Edition’ (but better).

- Maya

Have you ever asked yourself the question,

What kind of holiday season do I want to have?

Do you like my traditions? Any that you miss? Any you want to start?

What gatherings matter the most to you, and what do I value about them?

Is there anything that would make the unavoidable stress of the holidays a little better?

What if you could start 2026 not needing a vacation from your “vacation” because you actually spent the holidays how you wanted to?

What if there was a Holiday Survival Kit full of bite-sized tips, tools, and resources that could help you do just that?

What if said Holiday Survival Kit included tried and proven tips for how to avoid a blowout at Thanksgiving? And catchphrases to say to your offensive family members who don’t think you have a “real” job?

Or what about a way to help you decide whether you really want to go to your third holiday party of the week? And a guide to making the perfect holiday playlist? And reframes to help you stop comparing your life to a Hallmark movie where you fall in love with the owner of a Christmas tree farm?

Inside the Holiday Survival Kit Party,

you’ll learn..

M A C K E N Z I E

“Alexa does such a good job of making what can be hard inner work feel accessible, fun, and attainable.”

J E S S I C A

“Alexa demonstrates a unique ability to help me reframe the perceived messiness inside my mind — challenging me to pause for the big thoughts and feelings that I would normally breeze past or shove deeper.

K E N Z I E

Alexa has such a beautiful way of utilizing her stories - raw, vulnerable, witty, insightful and hilarious - to help you tap into your common experiences and gain what you need from them to move forward.

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E M I L Y

Alexa has a gift for holding space, asking thought - provoking questions, and helping you learn more about yourself and how you go through the world.

I would highly recommend working with Alexa, whether it's in a group format or if you are lucky enough to have 1 on 1 sessions with her.

Your life will change for the better!

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What’s Included

All the

Merry Details

aka all the sections

Hallmark vs. Reality

Are you fresh off a breakup, dragging your best friend home to fake a relationship in your quaint Northeastern town, while helping your aunt, Jennifer Coolridge, pull off the Christmas pageant, and all the while dating Luke Macfarlane because your mom, Kathy Najimy, set you two up on a blind date? No? What do you mean, no? Isn’t that what everyone does for the holidays?

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Let’s dive in!

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Holiday Survival Kit
$97.00
One time
$48.50
For 2 months


✓ On-Demand Video Content (totaling over 130+ minutes) ⬇️
✓ 35 Bite-Sized Peptalks, Mindset Shifts, Exit Strategies etc.
✓ Unlimited Replays + Lifetime Access to All Resources
✓ Option to Add On Workbook + Alexa's Personal Kit + 1:1 Time
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I’m your guide,

Alexa Juanita Jordan 

Certified Life Coach. Published Author. Bestselling Substack Writer.

Gilmore Girls Afficionado. Glennon Doyle Devotee. Fellow Ozian.

Native New Yorker.

More about me here.

Frequently Asked Questions + Concerns

More Questions?

Curious about 1:1 support?

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Enough already, I want my tool kit!  

A woman in a pink coat and white dress walking on a cobblestone street while holding a drink in her hand, with a brick building and a yellow storefront in the background.
Holiday Survival Kit
$97.00
One time
$48.50
For 2 months


✓ On-Demand Video Content (totaling over 130+ minutes) ⬇️
✓ 35 Bite-Sized Peptalks, Mindset Shifts, Exit Strategies etc.
✓ Unlimited Replays + Lifetime Access to All Resources
✓ Option to Add On Workbook + Alexa's Personal Kit + 1:1 Time